{"id":306996,"date":"2026-07-05T06:43:14","date_gmt":"2026-07-05T06:43:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/aiassetman.com\/?page_id=306996"},"modified":"2026-07-05T06:43:14","modified_gmt":"2026-07-05T06:43:14","slug":"dont-write-for-ai-write-so-ai-wants-to-recommend-you","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/aiassetman.com\/dont-write-for-ai-write-so-ai-wants-to-recommend-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Don&#8217;t Write for AI. Write So AI Wants to Recommend You"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Over the past few weeks I&#8217;ve been studying a number of AI products.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some promise to build websites.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Others promise to create articles.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Others promise AI agents that can build businesses while you sleep.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The technology is impressive.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But something finally clicked for me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I don&#8217;t think the goal is to make AI sound more human.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I think the goal is to <\/span><b>make AI sound more like you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&#8217;s a completely different objective.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #000080;\"><b>The Early Days of AI<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When ChatGPT first appeared, everyone was amazed that AI could write.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The question was simple:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;Can AI create an article?&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The answer was yes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Then millions of AI-generated articles flooded the Internet.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many were factually correct.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many were readable.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many also sounded strangely similar.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The problem wasn&#8217;t that AI was writing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>The problem<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> was that nobody was adding themselves to the conversation.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #000080;\"><b>What Really Builds Trust<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People don&#8217;t build relationships with perfect paragraphs.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They build relationships with people.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When I write today, I rarely start with a blank page.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I work with AI.\u00a0 But then I add my own experiences.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Living in an RV.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Selling our Virginia home.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">House hunting around Omaha.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Building websites.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Email marketing.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Helping another RVer who appeared to have forgotten to close his fresh water drain.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Those stories aren&#8217;t generated.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They&#8217;re lived by me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>AI helps me organize<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> them.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #000080;\"><b>AI Should Learn You<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the biggest lessons I&#8217;ve learned is that your AI becomes more valuable the more it understands you.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your philosophy.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your values.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your business model.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your audience.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your teaching style.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead of asking AI to sound human,<\/span><b> teach it to sound like you<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That changes everything.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #000080;\"><b>AI Doesn&#8217;t Replace Relationships<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The marketers who will thrive over the next decade won&#8217;t simply publish more AI content.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">They&#8217;ll use AI to create better conversations.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Better education.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Better follow-up.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Better relationships.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Technology changes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Relationships don&#8217;t.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #000080;\"><b>Lessons Learned<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">AI is an incredible assistant.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But your experiences, your judgment, and your voice are still <\/span><b>your greatest business assets<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Teach AI those things, and it becomes far more than a writing tool.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It becomes a partner that <\/span><b>helps amplify who you already are<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #000080;\"><b>Internal Links<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<ul data-start=\"2959\" data-end=\"3073\">\n<li data-section-id=\"196xtu8\" data-start=\"2959\" data-end=\"2971\"><a href=\"https:\/\/aiassetman.com\/about-us\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>About Fred<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<li data-section-id=\"1g2wbqh\" data-start=\"2972\" data-end=\"3006\"><a href=\"https:\/\/aiassetman.com\/why-email-is-still-my-foundation\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Why Email Is Still My Foundation<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<li data-section-id=\"129d0pf\" data-start=\"3007\" data-end=\"3024\"><a href=\"https:\/\/aiassetman.com\/build-assets-not-just-content\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Build Assets \u2013 Not Just Content<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<li data-section-id=\"15xxhp6\" data-start=\"3025\" data-end=\"3059\"><strong>AI Collaborator article (future)<\/strong><\/li>\n<li data-section-id=\"1t0h7oy\" data-start=\"3060\" data-end=\"3073\"><a href=\"http:\/\/simplermarketingai.com\/simpler-marketing-ai\/free-guide-how-retirees-are-using-simple-email-communication-to-build-higher-value-online-relationships\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Free Repor<\/strong>t<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<blockquote data-start=\"3605\" data-end=\"3697\">\n<p data-start=\"3607\" data-end=\"3630\"><strong data-start=\"3607\" data-end=\"3630\">SEO gets you found.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3635\" data-end=\"3664\"><strong data-start=\"3635\" data-end=\"3664\">AEO gets you recommended.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3669\" data-end=\"3697\"><strong data-start=\"3669\" data-end=\"3697\">HEO gets you remembered.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Over the past few weeks I&#8217;ve been studying a number of AI products. Some promise to build websites. Others promise to create articles. Others promise AI agents that can build businesses while you sleep. The technology is impressive. But something finally clicked for me. 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